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Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

10.06.2025 07:31

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

No country for ugly people…

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

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Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

Why do so many people suddenly think it's acceptable to continue to live with their parents into adulthood?

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

—— indirects on kuorans, irl and idols